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  1. When helping my mother downsize from a 4 bedroom house to her new apartment, we had a fashion show as she tried on clothes that had filled 5 closets and multiple dressers. We had lots of laughs and reminisced. The task was much less daunting and this twist made it easier for her to choose what to keep and what to donate.

  2. Good evening. Thanks for your blog. I am a senior who was bullied in the work-place because it seems that companies are wanting to employ younger workers. I ended up with a legal battle and PTSD and 2 years on, I am starting to feel much better. I now have the energy to attend to decluttering my home and to remove 25 years of teaching resources so that my home will be simply a home with lots of space to enjoy. I have started renovating my garden too. Since all tasks are overwhelming and I had the model of a mother who would attack tasks until the entire job was done, it was quite a journey to learn to find my own way. So I began with pulling 10 weeds per day and extended to a bucket with the goal being 5 buckets each time.

    In my home, I am tackling one small area at a time. Removing 3 items is not onerus and sometimes I can remove more. I have also set myself the goal of vaccuuming and washing the floors each week. One day I might wash one window. This week I removed items from the bench outside my front door and have already planted a small flower garden in that porch area. I plan to place a carved mirror on the wall opposite the bench and have placed some fuschia plants in pots and another plant in a pot next to the front door. I have thought to tile the area with rustic tiles and place large pots in front of the bin storage area.

    I know that there is a lot to do but my home is suitable to live in until I am ready to be carried out in a box, and I love where I live. I am sure that if I continue with doing one small job at a time, eventually all will be done. It is very hard to let go 25 years of a teaching career because of the emotions attached. This job needs to be done very slowly, a few items at a time.

    I am sure your blog will give me good ideas to help my project move along.

    Thank you.

    1. I’ve recently retired too and am finding it difficult to get motivated and start decluttering. Your words really resonated and inspire me. Thank you.

    2. I’m so glad you commented. I had two years of very serious medical issues and things got really behind. Your ideas for taking it slow will be helpful as I feel so overwhelmed. Thank you.

  3. I really loved this article Julianna. My parents are not seniors yet but we have been working on decluttering for over a year and I’ve found that they are progressively willing to let go of things as they see the uses they can put the open space to. Like you said, take your time, be patient, give yourself credit for small wins, and share the process with your kids.
    I also love some of Peter Walsh’s suggestions on sharing the story of sentimental items with your family so they know the meaning. He also recommended taking pictures of items and keeping the picture and the story instead of the object. Most importantly he encouraged us to look for the best of the best. Choose one item that best represents the person or memory that you want to remember

  4. I recently retired and my daughter moved in with 3 school aged children. We swiftly declutter the entire upstairs of our house. (4,000 sq ft) It was nerve wracking for me as I forced myself to make quick decisions of things I was attached to. Now I take my time, I started on the down stairs for a year and It will still take another year to finish. It it is easier to let go now and I feel like a load is off my shoulders every trip I make to donate.
    We live in the country and it is not easy to get people out for garage sales.
    I have many pricy collections my kids don’t want. When people come over and admire things I give it to them. Makes me feel like it has a good home. Lol.

  5. I read a wonderful book about Swedish Death Cleaning. They actually gave a word for it in Sweden! At age 65 people start downsizing and getting rid of stuff. That way, when they die all their junk doesn’t become a burden to their children. Being a collector and hoarder of WAY too much stuff in WAY too many categories, it was about time to DO something about it! In 2020 I got rid of over 6,000 pounds of stuff, including over 140 stuffed toys and over 2400 books and magazines to good homes. Unfortunately, it barely made a dent in the overwhelming mass of stuff. This year I have been caring for my mom, but maybe next year I will get back to the big shovel-out!

  6. Like Jessalyn, I also love this article. I am in the decluttering mode at the moment and it truly is hard to part with things that brings back memories of my kids childhood. But this list is attainable, I just need to stick to what needs to be done and be less emotional. I will consider Peter Walsh’s suggestion to take pictures of items and keep the picture and the story instead of the object….it will take up less space, as we know it. The best of the best will stay with me, promise. And will ask the boys (actually aged 27 and 25) which items they would want to keep for when they have kids of their own.

  7. i took a photo and scrapbooked a few precious things before decluttering them. Children asked me…do you still have those items?… oops

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