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  1. Hi,
    I went from a borderline hoarder (collecting anything I could use for a future “project” for the kids, art, classroom, or my kids when they eventually move out, or even move up in size in clothes). I literally had bags of hand me downs saved from friends and never refused an extra whatever it was with the thoughts that we could always use one if ours breaks. Even after a house fire that burned our town house to the ground along with the other 4 in the row back in 2017, I was able to restock to a point that it looked like we had stuff that was collected over years and generations. I would go to thrift shops, garage sales and facebook market place searching for things. It was a sickness. Then before the quarantine, my daughter came home very upset. She is the one of the three daughters of mine who doesn’t have a constellation of special needs. She is super popular and has very wealthy friends who live in big beautiful houses that look like museums. She came home from a playdate complaining that she is embarassed about the piles and piles of things we have and the amount of stuff we have – too many plants, too many picture frames too many colors all over the place, too many dog beds for our one dog, too many framed artwork paintings, etc. She said I can’t have friends here, it is like a crazy place! I was mortified and tried to explain how I was an artist and saw beauty in these things… but I said I would start to purge what we didn’t need. Anyway, that’s how it started, and now after hundreds of bags of stuff donated, we still have so far to go, but it has given us a new feeling of peace that I have never known. I can’t describe the feeling but it is so inspiring to keep going. Anyway, I like your site and it has given me a whole bunch of great ideas – now that we are almost living like normal people! Thank you!

      1. Really, really appreciate this article! So practical and helpful! Thank you!
        My biggest paper bugaboo would be a few magazines I want to read but don’t have time at the moment, good articles cut out of magazines that I’d like to have for reference, “sentimental” items ie cards and letters from dear friends and family members, pictures the grandchildren have drawn, photos, etc, etc, etc. ….. miscellaneous things which I would like to keep, but don’t know where they should go.

        1. Hi Anita. I would set myself a deadline for reading through the magazines, so I would prioritize reading them before then or realize it isn’t important to me if I don’t get to them by then. I have one decorative box where I keep my sentimental cards and momentos. I will go through it occasionally to declutter what’s in it and to reminisce.

  2. The best paperwork management tip I was ever taught was to open your mail next to two boxes (mine are A5 footprint – a bit bigger than a shoebox, is the size of a standard European letter paper (A4) folded in half (A5)) – they are a pretty floral design and look great on our bookshelf. Most mail comes as A4 folded to A5 which is why this format is perfect for us.

    As I open the mail items either go, into the ‘To Do’ Box or the ‘File’ Box (in truth I have a File Box for me, and one for my other half – so we have three boxes in total). I do this every day for that day’s mail as well as other adhoc things like receipts. So things are filed in date-order (more or less) in the File Box and generally it’s not a problem to find anything as usually you can remember around when you received it. And every month or adhoc I work through the to-do box.

    At the end of the year I flick through the File box for each of us and thin it out if necessary and file what needs keeping it in an ‘Year; storage box – for the year. I have 6 storage boxes one for each calendar year required for tax records (we need to keep 7 years worth – so floral box + 6 year boxes achieve that) and at the end of a year spend a happy hour shredding the oldest storage box (with a glass of something lovely to drink) to free it up and shuffle the contents down a year to free up my needed box for the year just ended. In addition to these 6 ‘tax year’ boxes I have two extra boxes ‘Memory/Sentimental’ Box for me and a ‘VIP’ fireproof box for long term items important to keep forever/beyond tax record requirements

    This simple tactic has transformed our unbelievably messy domestic paperwork into a really easy to keep on top of system 🙂 and my boxes are nearly 15 years old and have managed 3 house moves. What’s more is it’s really easy to find anything, even my otherhalf can navigate this system without my help 🙂

    1. Love this .. great explanation.. you are my inspiration for my heap of paper.
      I placed it in a big Marshall’s / TJ Max bag one weekend we went to my in laws. I thought I’d sort while my husband drove .. I didn’t do it that weekend but ended up losing / leaving it outside when we got to our destination. Everything taken .. I was worried sick about ID theft and also tasked with trying to rebuild & get digital copies of a lot of stuff for our small business taxes. What a sick feeling. I swore I was going to find a method to stay on top of paper clutter. It exhausts me just looking at it, and every evening when I get home from my full time day job I swear I’m going to tackle it and stop it from accumulating.
      I’m going to use your method my next stop at the mailbox, which will prompt me from cruising along and tackling the pile into organized files.
      Thanks again.

  3. All of the above comments have been so helpful. As an overwhelmed paper hoarder who just didn’t know where to start, your tips have helped!
    There’s just one vital piece of information I would like to begin with:
    Is there a site or link which has accurate info on how long to keep the following :
    1. Medical records – test results, lab results,surgeries, medical history etc
    2. Bank statements, credit reports, tax records, social security statements, investment reports, etc
    3. Vehicle papers- insurance, car titles, taxes paid, etc.?
    Anything, links, web pages, even names of entities or professionals would help!

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